2020 has been rough… It has pushed all of us past our limits, and then pushed us some more. We needed to unlearn the world we knew and adapt to a new world of isolation, face coverings, and most importantly, policy changes. We saw police brutality and worldwide protests.
2020 saw the death of so many people. Unsung heroes, first-line workers, moms, dads, grandmas, grandpas, brothers, sisters, daughters, and sons. Suicide rates were painfully high, and mental health awareness became more relevant than ever. Families were divided by glass and weddings took place over Zoom.
We lost so many celebrities, including Chadwick Boseman, a hero on screen, and a hero to so many young people.
This year sucked. I haven’t seen my family in over a year, and it seems that it might be a while before I get to see them. I am constantly on the brink of an emotional break. It is extremely difficult to have three kids at home 24/7, needing to worry about working, college classes, keeping Alex on track for distance learning, and keeping Ry and Evolet entertained enough. During this pandemic, Amanda and I have been less than 3 hours without children. We have had less than 3 hours where we could go and do what we want.
My daughter is turning 2 in less than a week! We are hoping to at least see some family so that she gets to socialize with her cousins for her birthday.
I am not feeling the Christmas vibe this year. Usually we have our tree up by now, but this year it just doesn’t feel like December. The festive mood isn’t as widespread with little display in most stores.
I am excited for 2020 to end, although that unfortunately doesn’t mean that 2021 is going to be much better. We are starting the new year at a disadvantage, since the pandemic will be as crazy as it is right now.
Stay safe this holiday season. Stay protected, wear your mask, and find a way to connect with family. This pandemic has reminded all of us how precious life is, and how quickly it can be taken away.